Well, if you feel that way, then go over to LiveJournal (LJ), where they'll probably sell your content to Russian spammers and seem determined to link your username with Facebook and Twitter and associated sites. Dreamwidth is a journaling site that's not very old, and there are growth pains -- one of them being that Support is run by volunteers...just as LJ's support is. Volunteer support means that some problems get dealt with more quickly, simply because those volunteers know what the answers are.

Seriously, until you brought this up, I hadn't even thought of the kind of style where you had something other than username|read in the tab portion of your browser. It's not something I've seen much of in LJ, either -- WordPress and Blogger, sure. When I go view your journal, your title and subtitle appear in the left hand side of the page, which is where I'd expect it to be.

If you're not willing to try the options suggested by foxfirefey, then maybe LJ is the better way for you. I don't think you're going to find out how to make that kind of style happen in any easier fashion though (I just went looking, and I couldn't find it.)